Valerie Mary Myles (nee Sumner)

On Thurday evening (18th January in London), I went out with a nice guy I had met called Charlie. We had dinner and some good chats. When I left to go home I had a missed call from my Dad. I pretty much knew what it would be as we usually text or Skype so a missed call was out of the ordinary. When I got to Hammersmith Dad called me back to let me know my Nanna (his mother) had passed away overnight. I was walking down Fulham Palace Road with a flood of tears streaming out and mascara all down my face a I talked to my parents. It was very sad indeed. At the end of the day it was for the best as she was very weak and frail and just wanted to go and "be with God and hold Adam's hand". I was thankful that this sad news was pre-empted by a really nice evening.

We were always very close. There were many times I'd give her a call to have a chat. She'd tell me this story and that and I was always fascinated with her history and travels. I have so many fond memories! Sure, she was one for saying exactly what was in her mind, such as telling me I was fat and questioning the paternity of my nieces, but she had a heart of gold and absolutely loved her 3 children, 8 grandchildren and 6 great-grandchildren. I loved going to see her at her place in Cronulla, we'd sit and chat as we watched the people down on the beach. She would wake up every day and say "thank you God for my place and for my family". It is very sad that I have been unable to be with my Nanna over the last 6 months and family at this time. My parents were so kind and selfless in caring for her, especially in her last few years as her dementia worsened. I know she is very grateful for that. It is a comfort however, knowing that my travel stories would lift her spirits and she was nothing but proud of and happy for me. I will certainly miss my Nan and will cherish the 30 years of memories we have.

Valerie Mary Myles (nee Sumner)

28th January 1923 - 19th January 2012